Dating

A problem the whole population has an issue with. It is truly sad when no one knows what to do about this issue known as "dating." To me if you're able to have a great relationship, awesome, yet I bet there was a lot of work done to get there. All the compromise most people hate to make because of their egos or their desires. I can honestly say my desires are a little out of there. I want in a relationship, trust, to talk to the person daily or three times at least a week, honesty, and emotions. Sadly all my relationships have always ended horribly and guess what I made the same mistakes everyone does. Expecting something when there is really nothing there. Yes I said it expecting. If you expect too much, which supposedly everyone does even those who aren't attached, what you expect will ruin what is there. However lets say you're in a long distance relationship, which now a days is more common than it use to be. The person hardly calls, hardly messages you, and it is always like this. This is what is known as a destructive relationship I'm afraid to tell you. Want to know why it is destructive, easy you have no clue if your special person is faithful or not this way. Also you begin to wonder "What could I be doing wrong? What is wrong with me?" It is common to see this. Here is the worst part the other doesn't even realize what is going on with you most of the time if it is like this. Sadly this is my relationship, so right now I am telling you this from what is going on with me. Sure most people aren't like this but no one ever knows. Some one out there might think the same way I do and get help from this. Sorry if I break anyone's dreams here but hey this is the truth. Try it for yourself if you don't believe me. Hey if you get one of those lucky relationships then awesome, yet most people get the destructive ones, and man it has the capabilities to drive one insane and to depression. On contrary there are worse than long distance ones. The close-yet-distant ones. These kill you even worse. Living in the same city and hardly seeing or talking to each other yet still dating. Yikes think of how hard it would be. Sure with the long distances you never know if their cheating but just think about it being right under your nose if they cheat. Long distance you never see the girl so it is behind your back. Close distance, they cheat and you see them on the street with the girl that is killer. You will probably begin thinking bad things about yourself or fool yourself into believing nothing is wrong it's just a close friend.

School

From the time we enter school to the time we leave school nothing really changes. People remain the same. As Bowling For Soup mentions in their song High School Never Ends, the only thing that changes are the names and faces. However when you look back to even elementary school the only thing that really change are names, faces, and the level of work you get to do. We go from drawing and learning our ABC's to learning Participle Phrases and in some schools Calculus. It is really funny once you think about it. Everyone says its completely different yeah.....not really that much different. Oh and what really makes me laugh is lunch lines.....we go from standing in small lines to well people cutting and whats really worse is, now I am not lying this is just what I have noticed at my school, people who are eating a bag of chips cutting people who don't eat that much. Sure the metabolism is high in them but still they need to learn restraint. It is really annoying to those who are down there from the start of the lunch and get cut by 20 people. Okay sure that person should tell them to stop but because of all the things people can do to someone else most are scared. They can cause physical to verbal to mental pain. Oh yeah thats another thing the way people hurt others. In elementary school just ignoring the person worked. However after a while they will push the person, yet once they get older they learn that they can verbally hurt the person or worse mentally hurt the person. Heres what gets it big time people acctually kill themselves or kill others. This also happens outside of school, meaning that no matter what school will always be around us. The drama tops it all. People caring about looks, appearance, and snotty attitudes. Even with school uniforms, another reason I really don't care what I have to wear to school, people still find ways to make fun and hurt others. Oh and back to the lunch lines wanna know what really makes me laugh everyone who cuts is skinny, or (no racism meant) African-americans. Sorry if this hurts anyone but it is all true from what I see and hear. Now if you think I lie about this, I am in the 12th grade and have had bully classes not to mention I observe what happens around me. I will not lie about what I myself personally see at school or real life.